2020 was the year we collectively watched life unfold like a lucid dream.
2021 was the year we collectively lived what we dreamed.
Dare I Tri –
Five years ago, at 51, I completed a Half Ironman race. A 70.3-mile race consisting of a 1.2-mile (1.9 km) swim, a 56-mile (90 km) bike ride, and a 13.1-mile (21.1 km) run. It took me 6 hours and 57 minutes to cover the distance. It left me hungry for more.
Where’s the un pause button –
Right about the time I completed said 70.3, menopause hit, and boy did it hit hard – hot flashes are très misérable.
As I moved through my early 50’s swimming became difficult as my monthly periods became VERY heavy – making swimming challenging. I still swam, but consistency became an issue – sometimes I’d be out of the water for 10 days at a time!
Every year I hoped the monthly challenge would cease to exist, but it only worsened. I swore off ALL medications and ALL procedures and just went with the flow (literally and figuratively). I focused on what I could do rather than what I could not do. I had no issues when it came to running and biking – so I rode and ran and ran and rode.
FINALLY, one day in early 2020 my dreaded monthly period ended. IT suddenly and unceremoniously stopped! I actually wanted to celebrate this new chapter – I rewarded myself with a new bike!
I started to swim again. I was a happy girl and I registered for the 2020 Chattanooga Ironman 70.3! And then…Covid struck — the whole entire world! Over the next year, along with just about everything else, most Ironman races were cancelled – to include my 2020 70.3 Ironman come back event.
In addition, I was having a few personal issues and thought it best to schedule an annual exam — a blood test confirmed menopause AND a physical exam, and more tests confirmed a worsened issue I could no longer ignore! I was forced (once Covid allowed) to have a complete hysterectomy. It’s funny how often the decisions you can’t make – are simply made for you.
Rediscovering the Tri! Post Surgery –
I finally felt better! Better than I’d felt in years. I felt so good I registered for the 2021 Chattanooga 70.3 – my 2020 registration having been deferred.
Following surgery, I prepared mentally and physically to re-conquer the 70.3-mile distance. Plans were made and schedules set.
Just shy of 56 and less than a year from the anniversary of my hysterectomy, I proudly completed the 2021 Chattanooga 70.3.
The task took just over seven hours this time. As I fell to the ground exhausted, I gave thanks to God! After crossing the finish line, I was unable to stand for almost an hour. My heart rate eventually returned to normal, and we slowly walked back to the hotel where I soaked in a warm tub and ate a whole pizza! It hadn’t been pretty, but it was done, and I’d survived.
The endorphins…sweet, sweet endorphins! Riding the wave of endorphins, I registered for next year’s race. Because that’s what we do!
Rediscovering the triathlon helped me move through a very difficult year. The training took my mind off the anxieties associated with this phase of life. Looking back, I know what I need to do in order to improve.
Can I improve and do better? I’ll TRI!
Goals!
2020 was the year we collectively watched life unfold like a lucid dream.
2021 was the year we collectively lived what we dreamed.


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